June 19, 2013

Leap Year

Why do we have Leap Years?  Why does today, February 29th even exist?  We seem to get along just fine between Leap Years, so why do we have to add an extra day to our calendar every 4 years?  Great questions (if I don’t say so myself), I’m so glad you asked.

Leap Years are needed in order to keep our Gregorian calendar in alignment with the Earth’s revolutions around the sun.  Remember back to our school days when we learned that the earth rotates on its own axis and while this is occurring, it is also circling around the Sun?  Well, it takes the Earth approximately 365.242199 days to circle once around the Sun.  The problem is the Gregorian calendar has only 365 days in a year.  Therefore, if we did not add a day every 4 years, over the course of 100 years, 24 days would vanish.

Now if you’re like me (you should probably pray you are not) the idea of having 24 days vanish into thin air-never to return-has the makings of a great fiction book.  But let’s look at this phenomenon from a more narcissistic perspective.  What if one of those 24 days was YOUR birthday?  Think of all the fun and gifts you would miss.  Which reminds me, what about those people that are born on Leap Day?  How do they celebrate their birthdays every year? 

I say we allow those that are born on Leap Day to have two choices.  First, they can choose to age at a four -year pace (another great concept for a novel) or they should get to celebrate their birthday twice a year on whichever ever dates they desire.  This way they get to make up for the injustice of not having a “birth-day” that actually exists.   To all my friends out there that were born on February 29th, allow me to be the first one to say, “Happy Birthday!”  See you in four years…or…twice next year.

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Academy Awards

If the females that live in my house are a sampling of the women in America, then the main reason we watch the Academy Awards, A.K.A. The Oscars, is to witness the latest in fashion.  They watch to observe what works and what does not when it comes to clothing, shoes, hair, and jewelry.  It does not appear that anyone actually cares about who wins or who loses.

To test my theory, I asked them who won “Best Actor” award last year and they could not remember.   Sensing a lack of enthusiasm for the overall event, I decided to find out how these people get nominated for an award and how this all got started.  What I discovered was in order to be nominated for an Oscar, a movie needs to be shown at Academy selected festivals.  Nominees must be selected by those in their respective fields.  For example, actors, not directors, must nominate a “Best Actor” nomination.

The award, under a different name, was founded by Louis B. Mayer of Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer fame.  He conceived the idea as a way to help improve the film industry’s image and help mediate labor disputes.  The actual Oscar award was later introduced by the Academy as an award “of merit for distinctive achievement” in the industry.  The first award ceremony was held on May 16, 1929, in Hollywood to honor outstanding film achievements of the 1927 and 1928 film season. 

So now you know the history of the Academy Awards.  Once again I sense a lack of enthusiasm.  Maybe next year I will do a history lesson about the “red carpet”.  I know…those pins and needles are going to be miserable to sit on for the next 364 days.

Making The Hard Call

At some point in time we all struggle with making a critical decision in our life.  I’m talking about one of those decisions that are final.  In other words, there is no option of going back…true, tough decisions.  When those times occur, we usually find ourselves asking the same questions over and over again.  How do I know what is right?   Which direction do I choose?  Which choice is going to be better for the future? 

Sometimes there does not appear to be a right or wrong answer. We just need to make a choice and then move forward.  This is often easier said than done. It is especially easier said then done after we have applied biblical principles, when attempting to make a tough decision, but we are still uncertain.  For example, the Bible teaches us to pray, seek wise counsel, and look to the scriptures when we are faced with making the tough call.  But what do we do when we heed that advice, only to discover there still does not appear to be a right or wrong answer?

Allow me to share with you something that I recently learned myself.  Look back over your life.  Look for those markers in your past that were life changing.  Those markers that signified a fork in the road, a path you chose to take.  Those markers will most likely disclose a pattern to you.

If your choices have been good choices, then examine what the motivating factor was and stay with that philosophy.  If your choices have resulted in more pain than pleasure, then alter your philosophy so  you don’t repeat the same mistakes.  Getting from marker”A” to marker “B” can be very difficult at times but that does not mean you should not try.  The journey between the two markers is called…life.

 

Health and Fitness

I must confess, I’m addicted to health and fitness.  Those of you who have known me for many years, but have not been around me in awhile, may not believe this statement.  I understand your doubting nature.  Yes, this is the same man who would eat deep fried anything, drink Dr. Pepper like water, and chew tobacco better than Clint Eastwood during his spaghetti western days.  Life changes things.

I now eat healthy, run three days a week, and lift weights three days a week.  My two favorite sport activities are surfing and stand-up paddle boarding. I’m down from 200 lbs. to 175 lbs. and I have maintained that weight for a few years now.  You may think I am blogging all of this because I am one of those “reformed” people and everyone knows there is nothing worse than a “reformed” whatever to lecture others in all that they are doing wrong.  Well, that’s not the case.  I am blogging on this topic because I just read an article regarding the health issues we face according to our age.  Here is how it breaks down:

Men in their 20’s = Lack vitamin “D” (Please…that is not a big problem)

Men in their 30’s = Herniated discs (Okay…that is a big problem).

Men in their 40’s = Gradual decrease in three areas: energy, ability to sleep, and brain function (Did I just hear an “Amen” from the ladies out there?).

Men in their 50’s = Heart attack (That’s it…heart attack? No warnings, no one letting us know that if you exercise, i.e. run and lift weights, we lesson the risk?)

The men in their 50’s category is not what bothered me the most.  Do you know what bothered me the most?  It stopped at the 50’s.  Did I miss something?  Does the Mayan calendar say if the world does not end on December 21, 2012, then men will not live beyond their 50’s?

                                                               Stay Healthy…Live Clean…Enjoy Life

 

 

President’s Day

Early in my career, I worked for a Fire Chief that gave me some sound advice.  He said, “Richard, you will work for a lot of leaders in your career, don’t dwell on their faults.  Look at what they do well so that someday you may apply those traits to your own leadership skills.”

Well, in honor of President’s Day today, I have decided to honor that advice and look at the U.S. Presidents that have served in office over the past 50 years.  Below is my opinion of the good traits they brought to the office of the President of the United States of America:

John F. Kennedy –     He knew how to appeal to the heart of the American people.

Lyndon B. Johnson – One who cared about true equality for all mankind.

Richard M. Nixon -   He understood the value of foreign policy and diplomacy.

Gerald Ford -             He placed the needs of others before his own.

Jimmy Carter –          A man of strong moral and ethical values based on biblical principles.

Ronald Reagan –       A visionary with the ability to bring his visions to fruition.

George Bush –           He believed strongly in the American way of life.

Bill Clinton -               He knew how to delegate authority to the right people at the right time.

George W. Bush-       He made the tough decisions through much prayer and sought sound advice from wise counsel.

Barrack Obama –      Still too new to the position, but he is an excellent orator.

 

 

Mission Impossible

I saw a billboard advertisement for the recently released Mission Impossible movie.  The strange thing is that this one title started my mind wondering.  I thought about how ironic the title is because, although the theme is “mission impossible”, the characters in the movie always seem to be able to make the “impossible”, possible.  Then I changed mental gears and started thinking about the short-term mission trips that I have been on.  There were times in each of these trips that some or all aspects of the mission seemed impossible, yet through God, they became possible.

Most of the people that I know that have been on short-term mission trips usually go through some type of withdrawal after they return home.  I’ve come to the conclusion that this occurs because while we are on these journeys, we are forced to rely completely on God.  That does not happen back home.  Here in the United States, we have abundance.  Even if we are not rolling in money, we usually have much more than those we left behind in some foreign country. 

My point is, when we are in true need, we completely turn to God and accept whatever His will is for our life.  No place is this more apparent than in a foreign country where a short-term missionary may not speak the language of the land and yet that person is being asked to be a light for Christ.  This is where the difference lies between the movie and real life.  In the movie, the mission is “top secret”.  In real life, we are to shine the light of Jesus like a lighthouse.  Consequently, we come away from our mission experience feeling as though God truly did use us in a manner that may have made a difference in the Kingdom of God for a few people.

So, while driving in my truck thinking about the movie advertisement, I was reminded that we don’t have to be on a mission trip in some foreign country to make ourselves completely available for God to use.  We just need to get the right mind set.  First we need to focus on the things above.  Then we need to look at our hometowns, work places, and the different social activities we participate in as our mission field.  I know this is not a new concept for most of you, but how many of you have truly dropped to your knees and asked God to show you the way to reach people…like you would do if you were in a foreign land?  If Tom Cruz can make an impossible mission, possible…why can’t we? 

English 101

I was talking with a friend the other day about the English language.  She has her degree from Azusa Pacific University, teaches in the public school system, and is gracious enough to offer her assistance to my grammar woes as I attempt to continue to become a writer.  I was telling her that I have trouble differentiating certain words that are very similar in both spelling and meaning.

I was asking her how she developed such a mastering of all the rules that go along with the primary written word we use here in the U.S.  She told me she was blessed to have had a grandfather who helped her understand the rights and wrongs of English when she was young.  She said her grandfather had a way of teaching that made things fun.  Here is an example of his sense of humor:

“Honey, don’t get too caught up in the rules of English”, he once told his eager to learn granddaughter.  “English is a crazy language.  What do I mean?  We ship by truck but send cargo by ship.  We have noses that run and feet that smell.  We park in a driveway and drive in a parkway.  And if that’s not enough, if the plural of man is always men, why shouldn’t the plural of pan be called pen?  If a father is Pop, how come Mother’s not Mop?  But the coup-de-grace is if a vegetarian eats vegetables, what does a humanitarian eat?”

Thanks “Grandpa” for putting things into perspective… 

Valentine’s Day

Photo by S. Braswell

If Valentine’s Day is the only day during the year that you show your spouse special attention…we need to talk.  But that talk will take place in another blog.  Today’s blog is about sex…just kidding…but it got your attention didn’t it?  Today’s blog will take you from fantasy to genuine love.  You ready?  Here we go…

The sun nestled softly and gently into the horizon of the turquoise colored sea somewhere off the tropical island of paradise.  Two bodies lay in the sand, side by side, mesmerized by the iridescent colors that only God can create at that perfect time between day and night.

As the sun disappears, he rolls onto his side toward his wife, runs his fingers through her hair until he has the nape of her neck cradled firmly into the palm of his hand.  He then softly and deeply kisses away any troubles or sorrows she may have experienced over the course of her lifetimeWait! What?  

Not many of us will have the opportunity to live out a romance novel by tomorrow, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have a nice evening.  A babysitter takes the kids during dinner time at home, reservations are made at a restaurant that over looks the valley, enjoying a cup of java at the local coffee house where both of you pay complete and total attention to what the other is saying…that’s Valentine’s Day.  If you’re wealthy, spend it flying to Paris for dinner. If you are on a tight budget, share your time in the backyard drinking soda. It’s not really about the day, it’s about spending quality time with the one you love.  Enjoy each other…

                                                                                                       Happy Valentine’s Day

“T” Time

Have you ever thought about how the letter “T” can change the whole meaning of a word?  Probably not, since most of you are not wired the same way I am and you can thank God for that blessing.  Be that as it may, the other day I was noticing that the letter “T”, especially in the lower case, can have a huge impact in our life.  Here are some examples:

Ouch…add a “T”…Touch.

*  Ax…add a “T”…Tax.

*  Ears…add a “T”…Tears.

How about when we put the “T” at the end of the word:

*  Ran…add a “t”…Rant.

*  Plan…add a “t”…Plant.

*  Ankle…add a “t”…Anklet.

I think you get the point, but let’s examine the lower case “t” a little closer.  Isn’t it interesting when you look at a lower case “t”, it looks like a cross.  We all know that the cross is known throughout the whole world as the symbol for Christianity.  So is it a coincidence that when we add the cross to Jesus’ name, it changes the whole meaning of who He is and what He did on our behalf?  Think about it, if Jesus had not died on the cross, He would not have become…The Christ…which in some translations means “The Messiah”.

*  Chris…add the cross…Christ

Music Appreciation

Music is an amazing continuum.  It has the ability to reach the deepest part of a person’s soul.  Whether the music is uplifting or rages against the “Establishment”, music moves people in ways no other form of communication accomplishes.  As parents we believed this to be so true that when our children were younger, my wife used to tell the kids that they can’t listen to music with lyrics about bad Mammas or cause eyebrows to frown.

When my grandkids are visiting, they walk around the house singing to themselves.  It is very apparent that when they are singing, they are happy.  I think that is probably the case for each of us.  Think about it.  How can we carry out the day singing or whistling to ourselves and remain sad or in a bad mood?  Music, under the right pretense, seems to bring out good attitudes.

Even in the old testament of the Bible, songs were used to help the people memorize the scriptures.  If music has the ability to reach the masses and help people memorize information, why don’t we use it more to teach?  I think I would have done much better in history if my teacher would have sung the “War of 1812” like Steven Tyler from Aerosmith.  How about learning the multiplication table from Beyonce or studying science with Cold Play singing about the solar system?  What a great concept!

I guess the only problem is most people are like me and couldn’t carry a tune even if we placed it in a suitcase.  Therefore, the classroom may sound more like caged dying animals then a choir of angels from heaven.  Oh well, not being able to sing should not deter us from enjoying our day.  If nothing else, we still have the shower.  We all know that even in the shower, the most tone deaf person in the world can still “bring down the house”…or…“raise the roof”…or…whatever…